My blog's focus started out as an exercise to help me learn to live with the deep grief I was experiencing after my daughter's unexpected death. Looking back on the blog I truly hope some of the posts have touched other people's hearts who are living with the heartbreak of losing someone they love. Many years later the focus shifted to include things that I find interesting or compelled to share but I have never lost the main focus of the blog--GRIEF. (updated Jan 2024)
Friday, August 23, 2013
Tuesday, August 20, 2013
Poem written by Diane Mastromarino
August 17, 2013
Jim included this
poem at Laura’s memorial 30th birthday during his comforting homily
to the group.
When you look up at the starlit sky
know
that you are not alone
In your loss, you
have gained a
You may feel lonely
and hurt inside
as this moment overwhelms you
But time will bring
you closer to
understanding, and it will slowly fill
the
emptiness inside your heart
You have friends
and family to help you
through
this, but you have someone
even
greater watching over you now
Let the sunlight
dry the tears that flow
from
your eyes, and as the sun sets
into
night, know that you are not alone
Know that among the
beauty of the night
a
soul twinkles just for you
And that in the calmness
of a passing breeze
peace
floats by to ease your heart
As long as the day
turns into night
you
should never feel lonely
because
you are not alone
Diane Mastromarino
Sunday, August 18, 2013
Memories: Making & Remembering
Laura's Memorial Birthday Barbecue
God sent us a magnificent day!
We spent the afternoon with family and close friends.
We are so fortunate to have so many to share the special day with us--in person and in spirit.
Laura, we will never forget you.
Pics to come.
We spent the afternoon with family and close friends.
We are so fortunate to have so many to share the special day with us--in person and in spirit.
Laura, we will never forget you.
Pics to come.
Monday, August 12, 2013
Getting ready for Laura's memorial birthday...
We are celebrating a little later than usual this summer.
Saturday our family will come together to remember and honor
our daughter who would have been 30 years old this past July.
We will miss our friends and family who can't
make it to share the day with us.
We love you, Laura!
Forever and ever you will live in our hearts.
Until we meet again...
Shawn & Laura (their last trip to the park)
Wednesday, August 7, 2013
Alaska: I would love to go back
In 2002 we took a cruise to Alaska with our good friends, Barbara and John. We had a blast! I know I can't relive that trip but I do hope in the future I have another opportunity to spend time in Alaska.
Monday, August 5, 2013
Can a pet send a message?
August 4 2013
Last night I had an usual dream about my beloved pet, Sierra. I woke up in the middle of the night from the dream and quickly fell back to sleep and picked up the same dream. I am sure you have been able to do that too. Anyway, the jest of the dream was about the two of us running away and hiding. I don't recall what we were running from or who we were afraid of finding us. I remember telling her continuously that she had to be very quiet so no one would find us. I was so insisted about this. Sierra was wonderful, she obeyed me completely—never making a sound!
I honestly felt she was by my side. I miss my dog so much.
In the morning I shared my dream with Fred and later with my friend, Terry.
Anyway, maybe she was trying to send me a message!
August 5, 2013
Fred and I went walking after work to discover a walking path that we haven't been on. We saw a mama deer with her three fawns eating dinner alongside the bike path. She wasn't a bit frightened of people! We walked for about an hour and as we were just finishing and ready to jump in the car to head home I spotted a dog strolling along the path from the other side and heading directly to the street. My heart started to pound; I ran to stop the oncoming car, which was heading her way, from moving until the dog crossed. The driver would not have been able to see the dog because of the curve at the exit of the path. The dog would surely have been hit. I was able to calmly capture the dog and fortunately she was wearing a collar stating her name (Shelia), address, and phone number. Shelia never once made a sound!
Fred called and left a message for the person. The guardian called us back a few minutes later to tell us he was a Port Authority cop and in the city working. He was going to try and reach someone to come collect Shelia. Anyone who knows me, realizes that I was already planning to take the dog home with us. She was so friendly, well behaved, and quiet. That didn't happen though...the officer called back and gave us directions to his house. We drove Shelia home to her back yard. Before leaving I quickly scanned the yard to see if I could find where the pup escaped from. I didn’t want her to wander outside again. I was unsuccessful--I found no openings.
Anyway, the dog was safe and Fred and I felt great about saving the dog.
During the entire time I took control of Shelia she never once made a sound. I wonder if my Sierra was warning me that I was going to rescue a dog from potential harm?
Saturday, August 3, 2013
Louie--the super dog
Here is a loud shout-out to my grand dog, Louie. He had surgery yesterday. I stopped to see him today for a few minutes. How sad to see him in pain. He gave me precious licks.
I hope you have a speedy recovery.
Love you Louie!
I hope you have a speedy recovery.
Love you Louie!
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