Thanksgiving is almost here and that means delicious treats, a few days off work and cozy food coma time with family and friends. For our pets, it’s a time of change and activity. Please celebrate safely and remember that what you eat could be toxic to your dog or cat. Happy Thanksgiving week!
My blog's focus started out as an exercise to help me learn to live with the deep grief I was experiencing after my daughter's unexpected death. Looking back on the blog I truly hope some of the posts have touched other people's hearts who are living with the heartbreak of losing someone they love. Many years later the focus shifted to include things that I find interesting or compelled to share but I have never lost the main focus of the blog--GRIEF. (updated Jan 2025)
Monday, November 19, 2018
Saturday, November 17, 2018
Hard to believe it is 10 Years...
The artist captured my grief perfectly.
10 years have passed without my daughter, Laura, in my life and
this is exactly how I still feel most of the time.
Especially around the holidays, when I am witnessing everyone
spending time together, having fun, and sharing love with their families.
It just doesn't get any easier. Life goes on and I cherish the good times and the love
that has been granted to me. Even though Laura is no longer here physically, I am
blessed by God to share my life with my husband, son, daughter-in-law, granddaughter
(who makes my heart sing with joy), and the rest of my family and dear friends.
Including my dog, Zoey.
(Picture copied from a Facebook post.)
this is exactly how I still feel most of the time.
Especially around the holidays, when I am witnessing everyone
spending time together, having fun, and sharing love with their families.
It just doesn't get any easier. Life goes on and I cherish the good times and the love
that has been granted to me. Even though Laura is no longer here physically, I am
blessed by God to share my life with my husband, son, daughter-in-law, granddaughter
(who makes my heart sing with joy), and the rest of my family and dear friends.
Including my dog, Zoey.
(Picture copied from a Facebook post.)
Saturday, October 27, 2018
The Dangers of Winter Coats and Car Seats
It has been a very long time since I posted something on my blog. My life has had some changes and I just haven't dedicated any time to blogging. Will get back to it soon! In the meantime, here is a bit of safety advice.
Reprinted from Consumer Reports, Emily A. Thomas, Ph.D. / Last updated: October 19, 2018.
How to keep your child warm and safe
Winter brings cold weather and potentially slick roads, but families still need to travel every day. We bundle up our children to help them brave the elements, but a bulky coat and a car seat can be a dangerous combination.
There are ways to safely transport children in child car seats while still keeping them warm. Here are some tips for parents to follow from the experts at CR's Auto Test Center.
Puffy Coat Check
As a general rule, winter coats should not be worn underneath a car seat harness because that can leave the harness too loose to be effective in a crash. Here's a simple way to check whether your child's coat is too big to wear underneath a harness:
Step 1: Put the coat on your child, sit him or her in the car seat and fasten the harness. Tighten the harness until you can no longer pinch any of the webbing with your thumb and forefinger.
Step 2: Without loosening the harness at all, unhook it and remove your child from the car seat. Take the coat off, put your child back in the car seat, and buckle the harness straps, which should be adjusted just as they were when the child was wearing the coat.
If you can pinch the webbing between your thumb and forefinger now, then the coat is too bulky to be worn under the harness.
How to Bundle Up Safely
If you find that the coat can't be safely worn under the harness, here are a couple things you can do:
For smaller children, put a blanket over them to keep them warm.Only use aftermarket covers, essentially fitted blankets, designed to give additional warmth that are approved by the car-seat manufacturer for your specific car seat. Such covers have been tested with the seat and won't compromise your child's safety.
For a bigger child, after securing him or her in the car seat, turn the coat around and put it on backward (with arms through the armholes), so the back of the coat serves as a blanket resting on top of the harness.
One of the most common problems with a child car seat is that the harness is left too loose, and wearing a big winter coat can be just one of the causes.
It's important that the harness is tight enough so that you can't pinch the webbing between your thumb and forefinger. Extra slack in the harness can let the child move to the point where he or she is beyond the protection of the car seat, perhaps even being ejected during a crash.
For smaller children, put a blanket over them to keep them warm.Only use aftermarket covers, essentially fitted blankets, designed to give additional warmth that are approved by the car-seat manufacturer for your specific car seat. Such covers have been tested with the seat and won't compromise your child's safety.
For a bigger child, after securing him or her in the car seat, turn the coat around and put it on backward (with arms through the armholes), so the back of the coat serves as a blanket resting on top of the harness.
One of the most common problems with a child car seat is that the harness is left too loose, and wearing a big winter coat can be just one of the causes.
It's important that the harness is tight enough so that you can't pinch the webbing between your thumb and forefinger. Extra slack in the harness can let the child move to the point where he or she is beyond the protection of the car seat, perhaps even being ejected during a crash.
Wednesday, April 4, 2018
What You Need to Know About Your New Medicare Card
Replacement cards start coming in April
and are already triggering new scams
Reprinted from Facebook post: Consumer Reports / Donna Rosato / March 26, 2018
To better protect the 60 million people enrolled in Medicare from identity theft, the government will be sending out new, more secure Medicare cards starting next month.
Instead of identifying members by their Social Security number, the new cards will use a computer-generated series of 11 letters and numbers. The cards will also no longer include a person’s gender or signature.
The change is long overdue, says Casey Schwarz, senior counsel for education and federal policy at the Medicare Rights Center, a nonprofit organization focused on helping older adults and the disabled access affordable healthcare.
“You show your health insurance card to a lot of people you wouldn’t share your Social Security number with,” she says. “The updated cards provide more modern privacy protections and lower the risk of identity theft.”
Ironically, the change has sparked a wave of scams targeting people using Medicare.
The Federal Trade Commission says the new scams stated almost as soon as the replacement card program was announced.
The Federal Trade Commission says the new scams stated almost as soon as the replacement card program was announced.
In one typical scheme, fraudsters call Medicare beneficiaries on the phone and tell them that in order to get the new card they need to provide Social Security and bank account information, threatening to cancel their Medicare benefits if they don’t provide both.Seniors, who account for 50 million of the 60 million people using Medicare (the other 10 million are disabled), are especially vulnerable to scams, says Brandy Bauer, communications manager for economic security at the National Council on Aging.
Bauer says older adults are targeted more often because they are perceived to have more money. But scams can have an outsized impact on seniors who live on a fixed income and who don’t have time to rebuild savings.
"You have a lot of unscrupulous people preying on people in Medicare,” she says.
Bauer says older adults are targeted more often because they are perceived to have more money. But scams can have an outsized impact on seniors who live on a fixed income and who don’t have time to rebuild savings.
"You have a lot of unscrupulous people preying on people in Medicare,” she says.
What to Know About Your New Card
You should keep your other Medicare cards. About one-third of people get their Medicare benefits through private insurance plans known as Medicare Advantage. Your Medicare Advantage card—which like the new Medicare cards uses a unique identifier, not your Social Security number—will not change and will still be your main card for Medicare. But you may be asked to show your new Medicare card, too, so keep that with you. Same goes if you have a separate plan for prescription drug coverage, Medicare Part D.
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